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home_push_up-7378151Here’s a question that was asked recently and I think it’s one that many have on their minds, especially if you haven’t undertaken structured exercise before. Now, bare in mind that pretty much throughout my life I never undertook any exercise, until my early twenties. Why? Well first of all I was always picked last for sports and then I got into the working life, where drinking was more popular than exercise – I’m not using it as an excuse but in the video games industry which I was in, it was about drinking after work and not going to the gym or taking part in sports, unless it was on a computer console. The next public relatiopns rep would be down to promote their new game and it was tradition to let the alcohol flow pretty much daily after work hours, a lot of the time even from the afternoon – now when you’ve got a hang-over pretty much every day, you’re not in the mood for working out, just as much as eating healthy when you’re hangin’  – yuk. So the snowball of fat gain and feeling sluggish begins.

So, how do you get addicted to the gym? Well, if I look at how I became a regular gym goer who enjoyed it, coming from someone who felt sick at the thought of it; my ‘tipping point’ (meaning the point that you say, ‘enough is enough, I have to do something about this’) came after being bullied once too many times. My confidence had been knocked so much that I wanted to do something about it. So, being the youngster I was, I thought of the ultimate confidence builder ‘Kung Fu’. As many of you may have read in The Lunch Box Diet, I enrolled in a local class. The great thing about doing it this way is; as long as you can overcome the fear of the first session, once you’re in, you’re normally meant to feel quite welcome. So when you go back and back again, you just improve and get fitter. Then the snowball starts rolling in the right direction. I was fortunate to have a great tutor who saw that I was a little more out of shape than the other budding Bruce Lees, so he offered to help me 1-1, free of charge in the gym, when he was exercising – nice guy! It was this moment that changed my life. Having a mentor there to be by my side made a massive difference. Modeling someone else’s performance and eating habits is the quickest way to success. So, if you’re wondering of a great way to get started, grab a friend who was in a similar situation to you are now and ask if you can jump on board. Chances are they’ll be thankful of the compliment and you asking to be their ‘health mentor’, will be something they can’t refuse.

Wait to see results

In addition, it’s also important that you push yourself through the initial periods and start seeing results before giving up. Don’t expect too much to quickly and lose interest. You’ll get addicted, when your clothes start to change and your feel different in yourself. When you’ve got more energy and are less tired. Make fitness fun and interesting. In my fitness bootcamps in Exeter, we have fun, mess around, have a laugh and people want to come back time and time again. Not only that, they want to see the same people who were there last time and everyone motivates each other. So, if you’ve been to a gym before and haven’t got results, don’t go back and do the same. Simple. Find something new, change your tactics! This will change your results.

Have a goal and track your progress

Be sure to track your progress. If you run for 10 minutes the fist time you run, make sure you do 12 the next time. If you lift 8kg weights for the first four weeks, up it to 10kg the next four weeks and write it down. When you stick within your comfort zone and prance around on the x-trainer while watching Eastenders, thinking ‘if I burn another 200 calories’ I can afford to have that curry tonight, you’re not going to get there! Work hard, but work so you get that buzz and want to come back and beat your personal best the next time around.

Visualise your end result

I’ve said it before, but use visualisation. Close your eyes and imagine you looking the best you ever have. Get the feeling of being in the skinny dress or jeans that everyone says ‘bloody hell X, you look amazing’. When you get that first comment, that’s when you’ll get addicted. You’ll get addicted to the feeling of compliments, instead of used to making up the fact that you’re happy at your weight, when you’re clealy not. You’ll get addicted to reaching targets – you’ve got to have clear targets in mind.

Well this is how I got ‘addicted’ anyway. There are plenty of other ways to get into exercise and love it, but the rule of thumb is find what you enjoy. If you don’t enjoy it, move on, there are hundreds of things you can be doing to get you fit without you moaning in the initial stages. But I’ll bet you this, once you catch the bug, the things don’t enjoy now you’ll most likely love. I’ve converted treadmill ‘haters’ into people who cry when they get an injury and can’t enter a marathon. I’ve converted sluggish office types into personal trainers themselves. It’s all about passion, and you too can get a passion for exercise. Let me tell you this, until you do, your life won’t be complete. You probably won’t have the relationships you want, be doing the job that serves you best and living your life to the max.

With that, I hope you’re raring to go!